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7 Things To Do If You Are Waiting For Love
3 min readApr 8, 2024
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You don’t look for love, love will look for you.
- Stop Waiting For Love- The first step in finding love is to stop searching for it. This sounds paradoxical but it is true; you usually find things when you are not looking for them. You fall in love without realising it sometimes. If you are constantly trying to find your lover, you will only lose yourself in the pursuit. This does not mean stop living, it means to carry on living. Everything will fall into place.
- Love Yourself- You need to develop a healthy, loving, caring relationship with yourself before you have one with another. When you truly care about yourself, you will not tolerate or take a lover who disregards you. Never settle for anything less, for this is a disrespect to you and your partner.
- Write Letters- A really beautiful practice is to write letters to your future partner. It will also be great to share and exchange these letters with them one day. Also, nothing screams love like handwritten letters do.
- Know Your Non-Negotiable Qualities- And stick to these. These are traits that you will not settle for. This is not to make your expectations unreachable, rather it is to ensure that you do not misjudge when you are in the throes of love. As…