Exactly, independence means something different for each individual.

You may think that's what feminism is and on the surface, that's what it appears to be.

Not every Red Pill advocate believes that either.

And there are many feminists who wish to dominate men.

Well, Islam gave that to women hundreds of years ago. Do you ever wonder why these problems don't exist in Islam? (Of course, there are Muslims who may be Red Pill or feminists but that's the individual, not Islam.)

I never said everyone has to be a wife or husband.

I agree, we ought to never force anyone into anything.

Well, in Islam being a devout Muslim is also being a righteous being. (Yes, I keep circling back to Islam because it offers answers to everything.)

Being a bad husband is acceptable in the West, not Islam.

What's stopping you from determining the best for yourself?

Which Qur'an?

And please let me know of any contradictions you have found, I will be more than happy to assist and disprove them. For the Qur'an is perfect but there have been many fabricated verses to push people away from the truth.