What Is Love?

Ruqayyah Ali
3 min readOct 30, 2023

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100 Answers

While the answers are infinite, here are 100 answers to the question: What is love?

Love is…

  1. An aching in the heart
  2. A fear in the chest
  3. A rose blooming without the knowledge of whether it will survive
  4. Free falling without fear
  5. Trust and honesty
  6. Being vulnerable
  7. Inhaling with ease
  8. Untetherable
  9. Growing old together
  10. The pink on my cheeks
  11. Knowing you are there for me
  12. The sparkle in your eyes
  13. The look you give our children
  14. Your arms around me
  15. Why we sacrifice
  16. When I search for you in the crowd
  17. You parting that crowd for me
  18. The reason we are here
  19. Sharing whispered secrets under the star-strewn sky
  20. Seeing more beauty with you
  21. Why I cry
  22. Messy and wild
  23. Our breaths mingled
  24. Feeling cold without your near
  25. Trying harder
  26. Allowing you to guide me, even with my eyes closed
  27. Why I feel safe
  28. An arrow landed true
  29. Taking risks
  30. The smell of cake
  31. Something I want to always share
  32. A journey
  33. A party at all hours
  34. Being present
  35. Giving selflessly
  36. Devoted faith
  37. Loyalty
  38. Music that pulls at my insides
  39. Unjudging of my madness
  40. A poison we happily drink
  41. Smiling at nothing and everything
  42. Being grateful
  43. The moon’s light
  44. The sun’s craving
  45. Fulfilment created
  46. Hate destroyed
  47. A force so potent
  48. Stolen moments
  49. All-encompassing
  50. Having nothing in our pockets but everything in our hearts
  51. My strength
  52. My weakness
  53. What pushes me
  54. Not sufficient a word to explain what we have
  55. Wiping and kissing away pain
  56. Unravelling fast between us and snaking around our hearts
  57. Caring about pleasing God
  58. Not giving up
  59. Learning from mistakes made
  60. Patient
  61. Impatient
  62. Laughing until we cry
  63. Praying for those that are your loved ones and those who are not
  64. A bedtime story
  65. Frozen lips from shared ice cream
  66. A mother braiding her daughter’s hair
  67. A father’s cheer
  68. A comforting touch
  69. An honour
  70. Why we are bound
  71. Why they kept apart
  72. Knowing to agree in public and work on it in private
  73. Striving for excellence
  74. Putting up with your snoring
  75. Without question
  76. Your soul intertwined with mine
  77. Brotherhood
  78. Not to be ignored
  79. Simmering, an endless fire
  80. Moulded bodies
  81. Sisters bonding
  82. Giving your last coin away
  83. Healing
  84. A thrill
  85. Sowing seeds
  86. Showing your naked soul
  87. Letting your guard down
  88. Being yourself
  89. Now, forever and always
  90. Loving yourself
  91. Unfiltered
  92. Rare
  93. Everywhere
  94. Support from you all
  95. Going to catch you unawares
  96. My language
  97. For the sake of Allah
  98. Poetry and prose composed
  99. What I yearn for
  100. Ours

And so much more. Infinity more.

I could go on and on for the rest of my days and still not have encompassed the meaning. There are different types and degrees but it is present everywhere. May you find the purest kind and it finds you, if not already.

وعنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏:‏ والذي نفسي بيده لا تدخلوا الجنة حتى تؤمنوا ولا تؤمنوا حتى تحابوا أولا أدلكم على شيء إذا فعلتموه تحاببتم‏:‏ أفشوا السلام بينكم ‏(‏‏(‏ رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)

-Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “By Him in Whose Hand my soul is! You will not enter Jannah until you believe, and you shall not believe until you love one another. May I inform you of something, if you do, you love each other. Promote greeting amongst you (by saying As-salamu ‘alaikum to one another)”.

لَن تَنَالُوا۟ ٱلْبِرَّ حَتَّىٰ تُنفِقُوا۟ مِمَّا تُحِبُّونَ ۚ وَمَا تُنفِقُوا۟ مِن شَىْءٍۢ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ بِهِۦ عَلِيمٌۭ

-You will never achieve righteousness until you donate some of what you cherish. And whatever you give is certainly well known to Allah. ~Qur’an 3:92

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Ruqayyah Ali
Ruqayyah Ali

Written by Ruqayyah Ali

Writer | Bookworm | Editor | Learner | Free Palestine | Writing's your voice, reading's your choice | 'For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.'~ Qur'an 94:5

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